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The husband she resented became the one she needed

Connection Regret·All ages

She spent a lifetime cursing the man she married. Then, past seventy, the pandemic shut them both indoors and the two of them faced each other all day. Strangely, it was the evenings without him that frightened her most. Mornings she made tofu soup; by night they bickered and snapped. Only after a few years of that did she understand: the one person who had crossed all those hard years with her was this man. Geum-ja Jang, 74, wrote it for the national literacy poetry exhibition from her class in Jeungpyeong.

Tofu soup in the morning, a shouting match by evening. Living that way, affection grew on me. Even he is a comfort to have around.

— Geum-ja Jang (74, Donghaeng Literacy Class, Jeungpyeong)

TODAY’S PRACTICE

Stop counting his faults. Find one moment today when his being there steadied you.

#MarriageBond#LoveAgain#GrowingOldTogether

SOURCE

National Literacy Education Center · 2020 National Adult Literacy Poetry Exhibition, Grand Prize · Geum-ja Jang, Donghaeng Literacy Class, Jeungpyeong

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